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Guided Routine

Guided Routine

For the who doesn't know what to feel anymore.
For the woman who misses being useful in the small everyday ways.
For When I need to feel understood

  • I needed this

    This put my feelings into words. It was like the auhtor Lori was me, This helped me in so many ways.★★★★★

  • Love this book

    I thought that this was going to be me forever. This was really easy to follow and helped me out a ton. I noticed a big change . Couldnt reccomend this enough. I feel seen! ★★★★★

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What to expect

A few weeks in.

Week one

Recognition

You read or listen to the first chapters and something loosens in your chest. Someone finally said the thing you couldn't say out loud. It wasn't that something was wrong with you. You were just carrying all of it alone, and no one told you that what you lost was real.

Week two to four

The small shifts

The mornings stop arriving like a weight. You wake up without that first wave of grief. The quiet hours that used to feel empty start to feel like yours. And your love and your care begin to have somewhere to go again.

Month two and beyond

Coming home

You start to recognize yourself again. Not the wife, not who you were before them the woman underneath all of it. You feel needed in a new way, by people who love you. And you have something to wake up for that is finally yours.

  • Great

    I've been struggling to make sense of how I've felt for awhile and no one had real answers. Everyone kept telling me 'this is normal' but I knew in my heart it wasn't. The biggest word that hit me reading it was that i'm lost exactly what I've been. These guides finally gave me the language for it and a way back. I highly recommend this to any wife who feels like she disappeared somewhere along the way.

    Samantha J
  • Love it

    I waited too long to buy this. It really helped and brought me a lot of peace

    Lauren D
  • Very Helpful

    I'm 71 and I almost didn't think this was for someone my age, like maybe I'd missed my chance to feel better. I hadn't. It's never too late, that's the whole point, and reading that out loud is what I needed.

    Susan A
  • Enjoyed

    Lori the author makes everything very easy to understand and brings up a lot of good points. Love what about me.

    Kacie T
  • Helped Me

    What about me helped me so much. It walked me through everything and made everything make sense. Would recommend.

    Stephanie L
  • Helped me

    After reading what about me It brought me a sense of calming.

    Sarah W

Loved by 4,500+ wives who for once felt helped and understood

98%

said "this is exactly how I feel" by the first chapter

★★★★★
96%

wake up without dreading the day

94%

would reccomend to another wife

★★★★★

FAQ

Is it too late?

No it is not too late the guide is written for all scenarios

Who wrote this?

Hello Im, Lori I am the author of What About Me along with all of the other books that go along with it, + the what about me community!

How long does this take to work?

As everyone is different most Woman notice a change within the first 14 days. While the biggest changes happen around the 60 Day Mark!

I'm Busy will I have time for this?

Yes, as a wife I built this to go at your own pace as being a wife is a busy, busy thing. Go at your own pace no rush!